“We are immersed in a curated reality and only exposed to the best part of people’s lives, yet we
haven’t learnt to objectively consume images. So, we create a reality of their lives in our minds based on what has been
shared. When we are confronted with these images, they prey on what is lacking in our own lives. If our careers are stagnant
we are likely to notice someone who is traveling the world with their business or job. If you have a non-existent love life,
you will not miss all the “baecations” or engagements and weddings from your following. It is worse for someone who is in
a functioning relationship and starts to compare notes based on this ‘reality’. People are expecting the world from others
and actually we are responsible for our own happiness,” says Khoza.